So said Sigmund Freud - but I think that's an easy answer to a more complicated theme. How one makes themselves available to love, and how one thrives at work are practices that can take a lifetime to develop.
Go inside yourself - and then find others to help you develop these capacities. Treat your body and mind well and they will guide you.
Life may be complicated, but it doesn't have to be hard!
Sincerely,
Cheryl